Now that I’m 30 I feel pretty much the same as I did at 29. But since I have a view from the third floor I thought this would be a good opportunity to take a second to look forward. While making plans for life can be intimidating, the thought of having no plan at all is even scarier. No, this is NOT a bucket list—there’s plenty more I that I want to get into before I call it quits. Instead, I hope these can serve as landmarks or milestones for the next decade, which I expect and hope will still be as full of surprises as the last three. So, without further ado, I present…
“10 Things I Want to Do in the Next 10 Years”
1. Peace Corps Colombia
For me, it’s always been important to balance looking forward with living in the present. With that in mind, I thought the first thing on this list should be what I’m working on right now. In addition to my work with Fútbol Con Corazón, I've gotten to help out a little with the Pre-Service Training of the new batch of future volunteers that arrived in country last month. I still have a full nine months left in my service in Colombia and I’m looking to squeeze all the juice out of this experience and finish it in style next summer.
2. M.Ed (Master of Education)
I recently started studying to take the GRE, and will be taking the test at the end of November in Bogotá. It’s been six years since I finished undergrad, and I’m feeling ready to hit the books again.
3. Get A Jobby Job
I’ve always loved my independence and mobility, especially in the work world. Still, I’ll be looking for an opportunity to contribute to an organization over a "longer" term. I want the next job that I take to be one where I stay for at least three to five years.
4. Visit 10 New Countries
I don’t look at the map of the world like a checklist to be run through. I’m more like a chubby kid with a sweet tooth standing in front of the candy wall at Sweet Dreams. If you asked me if I would rather have jelly beans or sour patch kids, I would answer “yes.” That’s pretty much how I feel about getting to see and experience new places. The number ten is a little arbitrary, but I’m thinking that one new country per year is doable. Here’s a snapshot of the possible destinations at the top of my list*: Cuba, Czech Republic, Egypt, Ethiopia, Israel & Palestine, Jamaica, Morocco, Philippines, Puerto Rico, Turkey.
5. Visit 10 New Cities in USA
The more I travel, the more I appreciate just how huge and beautifully diverse the United States is. I’ve seen a lot of it, but there is still so much more left. Here’s the short list of American cities I would love to visit: Anchorage, Austin, Cary, Chicago, Detroit, Houston, Memphis, Nashville, New Orleans, San Antonio.
6. Learn a New Language
French? Arabic? Cantonese? Swahili?
8. Coaching Badges
I started my coaching “career” at a relatively young age, getting my first job at age 19. Since then, I’ve completed hundreds of hours of professional training and gotten years of experience in different settings. Looking forward, my goal is to continue to upgrade my coaching badges, aiming for a UEFA A License and the NCSAA Premier Diploma.
Money isn’t everything, but it damn sure helps. One of my goals for the next ten is to keep doing what I need to do to live good. Specifically, this means taking my credit score from "not bad" to "good," and saving a little piece of every paycheck, whether it comes in pennies or pesos.
This one needs the least explanation—basically, I want to stick around to make another one of these lists in ten years. Stay active… limit the stress… everything in moderation (including moderation).
10. Become a Daddy
Obviously, this is the big one. No specific plans yet, but I know that I'll be needing some juniors and/or juniorettes in my life. Now accepting applications for suitable candidates. In the meantime, I'll settle for being Uncle Drew.
And just in case you're worried that I'm all grown up now, I leave you with this final picture to put your mind at ease.
*I did not include France, Germany or Portugal on this list because, technically speaking, I’ve been there before. But in each case I spent less than one day in the country and did not stay overnight, so they hardly count. I would jump at the chance to get to really experience these places, just like I’d love to return to almost every country I’ve ever visited.